More on DD's Dad

After showing up an hour later than I told him too because he couldn't get ahold of me - nevermind I told him to just be here an hour after we hung up, he proceeded to not take her to Softball or to call my mother. He got a good chewing out by my mom who packed up the car and DS to go help with practice and she wasn't there.

The guy has literally no clue of what other's people's lives or schedules are like.

I have penciled his weekends in the calendar and they are everyother weekend starting yesterday. If he doesn't call me by (my mom says Wednesday, but I'll say Thursday Night) then if there's something else she wants to do, her time will be spent there.

I don't prevent him from calling to talk to her during the week - I never have - and I also am not going to set her up for disappointment if he's "busy" or "broke" which seem to be the two most common reasons he doesn't take her.

I'm grateful for this blog thing. Allows the the freedom to keep track of "incidents", feelings, and commitments!