Both Men are Moving

I got calls today that both of my kids' dads are moving into their own pads. I have different feelings concerning each...I will share:

My Daughter's dad has long lived with his Grandfather and has since moved into a friend's home who just had a new baby. I have been encouraging him for a long time to get out and move on his own. He's finally doing that and my only prayer for him is that he can do this. It exactly what he needs.

My Son's father brings completely different feelings on the subject. He informed me today he's leaving the structured environment of the SLE and moving in with some "family" into a "den" like room that has its own entrance.

At first instinct, he's lying and he's moving in with his girlfriend. At second instinct, this is a huge mistake because no less than 6 times, each time he leaves the SLE, he's loaded and on a run within 24 hours.

I am angry because its against what he said he would do and its everything he'd done before. Basically, the pattern is now in motion!