I have just about all the confirmation I need!

I called my ex lastnight again to "listen" and point blank asked him why he didn't return my son's call.

This time, his excuse revolves around lost tools and having to drive out of the area to where there is no cell service. "You have (xx) Service too so you know how it is!"

Yeah, I do. I know how my phone doesn't work everywhere....but I also know that 99% of the time, a phone is w/in walking distance if the "starter on the car is broken too!" I also know if going 4 months without seeing my son, I'd wouldn't miss a call.

So, No, I don't know how it is!!!

He had this really distracted attitude. Wasn't really available on the call. Then the call cut out and he didn't call back. That was all I needed.

Moving forward:
A) I will not call him
B) I will not accept his calls
C) I will return his call ONLY when it becomes threatening to tell him to leave us alone and if he wants phone calls or visits, he will have to take me to court.
D) If harassment or threats ensue, I will get a restraining order.

That is the order of business. HE, as far as I'm concerned, is OUT OF OUR LIFE!!!