DD's dad is rumored to be using Meth!

After the events of yesterday and the I hate my dad statements and then bringing it up again today to my mom, we decided to try to get ahold of DD's dad today. My mother called his mother and grandfather asking if they knew how to reach him. Nothing.....

Since he hadn't been home in 3 days, I instructed my mom to call his girlfriends home. She left a message and the ex-girlfriend called back.

She has not seen DD's dad or heard from him in 3 days. She was hesitant at first to share anything but then when my mom said to her "would you want someone to tell you something if it affected your daughter???" Then she spilled the beans.

He had been almost stalking her and she was getting ready to get a restraining order when he stopped calling or coming around 3 days ago. He had been acting "strange" and she confirmed (as he admitted) that he had been drinking and she also indicated he was using meth. That is the reason she kicked him out. She felt that he was "acting strange" and didn't want that shit around her daughter.

I wrote him a letter telling him that his daughter hates him. Why not, we have nothing to lose and he deserves to hear it because she doesn't deserve to feel that way! I also am going to file for sole legal custody. My best friend made a great point....."What if she's on life support, you can't turn it off without his consent!" I will be damned if I'm going to prolong the inevitable because that SOB is fucking absent.

After all I went through with my court case, I have no tolerance or use for people like him!