Convo with Mom

my mother’s convo with DD’s Dad:

 

 

 

I told him her phone was taken away as we don't want to start putting her in the middle and him saying things like that as she could start blaming YOU for not letting her go with him.  I told him I was in complete agreement and that (granddaughter) should be having her calls monitored as she doesn't always understand WHY YOU do what you do.

 

I told him the story about not wanting to talk about her Dad with anyone at school.  How everyone has a Dad that goes to work, calls and since you do either she oviously isn't very proud of you.  Told him that she doesn't like the way you treat your Grandfather that she thinks your mean and doesn't understand that.  I told him unless he started changing he was going to lose her, just like you have lost your Mom and DAD.  I told him she will eventually start looking at you as a burden and an embarrasement.  He listened and got really quiet.