Call re: DD's dad

I called DD’s dad yesterday to talk about Halloween and him showing up uninvited/unannounced.  I said about 2 words before he went off on me.  I told him that I didn’t appreciate him coming over like that uninvited and that it was wrong of him to encroach on our plans like that.  He said “I have every right to go trick or treating anywhere I want to!”  Really defensive!  I told him that his behavior is scary and that if he keeps up stuff like that, I’ll get a restraining order on him.  He went OFF saying that “you can’t get a restraining order – I’m clean” and I said “I can if you keep up that kind of crap!” and then he basically told me to FUCK OFF and hung up.  

 

He called back 5 minutes later and I ignored the call…here is exactly what he said:

 

Ya know what, I’m just going to say that I’ve been trying to talk to my daughter and see my daughter but her mother isn’t letting me to see her.    Just because you had your damn boyfriend over there doesn’t mean…you know, how many times I”ve gone trick or treating there on that block and went there and seen her and that was awesome.  You…its’s…just because you don’t want your boyfriend to get beat up or whatever…ya know its just stupid.  Ya know, so quit quit all that.  Don’t character assassinate me because you know what, if I wanted to character assassinate you, I would have a long time ago and (daughter’s name) would have been in my possession. And I’m not going to…and I I didn’t do that okay.  So don’t judge me.  You have no no room to judge me at all. So uhhh…I just wanted to lay that in your court. So don’t call me at Grandpa’s house and harass me or nothing.  Ya know. Alls I want to do is talk to my daughter from now on.  I don’t want to have nothing to say to you. I’ll leave a message whatever I have to do.  I mean, I’ll just talk to my daughter.  And no body else because every body is character assassinating me so get over your big fucking high chair.