Update on DD's Dad

Lastnight, DD’s dad appeared on my mother’s block trick or treating.  He asked 2 days before if DD could go with him and his Girlfriend and I told him that we had plans.  He showed up in MY neighborhood unannounced…uninvited and threw me into a frenzy.  Good thing I didn’t see him otherwise I would have told him to leave.  I am going to call him and talk about it because that is a total encroachment in my opinion.

 

And now with holiday’s coming, I’m sure he’s going to start trying to come around more.  It bothers me.  He is doing this because he’s on again with his on again off again girlfriend and my daughter isn’t a pawn to this other woman’s heart.  He uses DD to show that he’s this great caring guy when he’s with this woman and when he’s not, he disappears.

 

I’ve also made a decision that she’s not going with anyone on his side of the family for Christmas.  If they want to exchange gifts, they can come to my house and sit in my living room and open then.  I’m done with this bullshit the paternal side of her family brings to the drama table.