Mom gets another call from DD's Dad

DD's dad called from Jail lastnight to talk to my mom. The call came probably around 9pm. My mom said she hung up on him because he's such an ass. NO SHIT SHERLOCK!

He hasn't read what I sent him. Keeps going back to my screw up three years ago as if to make himself better. Said "I never used in front of my daughter!" Funny thing is, he's not around her enough to pick his nose, scratch his ass, or even shop around her. So it doesn't surprise me he never "used" around her! Anyways, I rectified the situation and I'm going to ask the courts to give me what is rightfully mine and based on history - I have always made all decisions and he never sees her. There's really not much more to say.

He's planning on living with his girlfriend when he gets out. Part of me wants to call her landlord to let them know he's living there because the minute he returns to work, they are no longer low income and I may just announce that in court when he indicates his plans to return there - that is if he gets a chance to even say that!!!

I'm excited for my day in court and to leave with appropriate orders of Legal and Sole Custody and no visitation. If he wants to fight me then I'll give him supervised visitation through Kids Haven. He can go there, fill out the paperwork, figure it all out and tell me how it works. I'm here parenting my kids and that is where my focus will lie. Not with him or how to help him figure out life.

Its kind of funny that his mom is snowed as is the girlfriend. Me and my mom are not. While I always hold out hope for people, I'm not placing any energy into him that is premature and right now its premature!