Being the bigger person

DD's grandma called my mom to say her dad, papa, is in the hospital and things aren't looking good. He won't sign a DNR and they are all pissed about it. She will be calling my mom if/when he passes! My mom and I talked for a bit about it and I just sense DRAMA everywhere I turn.

I decided to be the bigger person and call her and she was upset when she knew it was me. I just told her I'd do anything for her or her family as it relates to helping, cleaning, transporting and shopping. They won't take advantage of it but my side of the street is cleansed.

I learned that DD's dad isn't getting the flag from his father's funeral and reamed his aunt - he just feels entitled. I hope that at the end of the day, people remember my daughter when it comes to the disbursment of any kind of family heirloom. If not, that's fine but it would be a nice gesture to give her something of sentimental value. This goes for her dad's dad that just passed and papa.

Also, he didn't call. DD knows and I asked her how she felt about it and she just says "not wanted!" I explained to her that this isn't about her - this is all about him and she should feel no less loved or beat down on herself as if its her fault - because its not. But when that mother fucker calls, I'm reading him the RIOT act. I'm sure he will have some lame ass excuse and then blame me in mediation, if he ever goes throught with signing up, but I have notes and they will all be brought into mediation and into court. I will leave no stone unturned. He can fuck himself and kiss my ass all at the same time!

How dare he not call when I give him a day to see her. Shame on him!