DD's dad phones and grandpa is dying

I'll write more later but its Sunday at 4:30 and he's calling saying he didn't show up because he had court things to deal with and he had to leave the house at 7:30am and wasn't home till after 9pm! I didn't want to hear it - so I didn't.

He asked for her on Tuesday. I told him she may have plans but to call Monday and I'd know more then. That's about all I can do for him now because I'm preparing my daughter to go to visit with her dying grandpa.