I got another one of those phone calls......

The one that goes like this "(your ex) is in jail!"

That's right - DS' dad is in jail again. His charges are long - evading arrest, resisting arrest, indescent exposure, hit and run, under the influence and the probation hold. I laugh, he's been held on more probation holds than I have fingers on my hand and no state time.

What can I say. I want to write him and rip into him but what good will that do. I want to file court papers taking away the little visitation he already gets, but what good will that do. I want to change my number, move, change my address, hurt him like he's hurt my son...and my son doesn't even know yet....but again, what good will that do?

I have alot of feelings but none are but none are bubbling to the surface.