He doesn't know when court is..../ his mom moves...

DD's dad asked me when court was an I refused to tell him. He thinks I want him to look bad to the judge by now showing up. He's clueless - this is about responsibility. I know when the hearing is...he was in the same courtroom I was when it was put on calendar. Its not my job to fill him in on things he should just know.

Lastnight DD and I went to see grandma off - she'smoving to another state. She's a mess. She indicated she only just got over to her dad's house who died in April to clean out the food - nasty.

I was cordial but she's gone and now I'll have to deal with ocassional calls to have DD fly down there - isn't happening!