I called re: Father's Day

Not wanting him to use Father's Day against me, I called DD's dad lastnight to ask him his plans on Father's Day.

His response....."when is father's day!"

My audible disgust was met with "What is your problem?"

I told him that he needed to let me know his plans if he planned on seeing her and to plan ahead, not call the day before because we are trying to make plans that day. He asks "well, its not like she has another dad...does she?!?!" And I didn't answer. I just told him that I need to know because in the past, he waits till the last minute to schedule anything and I'm threw accomodating him if he can't plan ahead. I told him next week in court we need to leave w/ a schedule so that he knows exactly the schedule to avoid this crap.

He doesnt' plan ahead and he's not thoughtful.

DD indicated the other day he gambles on the computer - he had a problem w/ this! Something to note. I also think I figured out why his girlfried thought his mom wasn't moving - she didn't want to say goodbye and put her other son up to telling dd's dad that she wasn't moving - well, she drives off today!!!