Updates on Both Dads

DS' Dad - going to prison for 32 months. I sent him a power of attorney form to sign so I can try to get money out of his taxes. Not much else to report.

DD's Dad - She's been seeing him every other weekend. He has this "thing" about calling at my mom's house because for some reason, he hates her. So be it. He's been making his visits. He's suppose to call 48 hours in advance and last week he didn't do that. He did however call the day before so I allowed the visit. I don't share with him any of this because I don't want to bait him to do the right things. Yesterday, she came home with new shoes...the first article of clothing purchased in 3 years. Sad but True. We go back to mediation in Sept, court in Oct and he will probably get overnights. Before he does however, I want a lease agreement because I think its crap that he lives there, she gets a low income housing benefit, and he's still not paying me full support. He's still not working, just got a car and hasn't paid me one dime towards arrears or one dime to the $2k I owe in uninsured medical bills. HE's disneyland dad - takes her to fun places and claims his girlfriend pays - YEAHRIGHT.

I'm still bitter but I'm okay. I just stay distant, keep my online calender and don't show my feelings to him....